Fiction related to involuntary celibacy
Various suggestions from a mailing list.
'Arguably the
greatest invcel in modern literature is Quoyle, in Annie Proulx's
'The
Shipping News'.
In addition to recommending Proulx's entire ouevre to
the
involuntarily celibate (see 'Postcards' for the story
of an invcel man with
a sex phobia), I would like to recommend John Kennedy Toole's 'A
Confederacy
of Dunces'.
Toole, a heavyset man who lived with his parents
and suffered
from a depression that led to his suicide before his novel found
a
publisher, wrote a very funny novel about a heavyset man who
lives with his
parents, is a virgin and can't hold down a job. This character,
Ignatius
Reilly, has become an icon to many for his arrogant intelligence,
his
flamboyant neuroses and his brave defiance of custom ironically
coupled
with a dehabilitating fear of the world. Despite the critical
treatment he
receives, it is ultimately a sympathetic portrayal of a celibate
30-year-old
man.'
'The Saga Of A Shy Fellow'
is a novel by psychiatrist and former university professor
Ruy Miranda. The main character stays in a state of involuntary
celibacy for a long period of his life due to shyness.
'I keep meaning to mention the work of Robertson Davies, a
Canadian
novelist (alas, recently deceased). In several of his books
there
are well-drawn characters who are celibate for long periods of
time.
I personally found myself identifying with Dunstan Ramsey, in
'Fifth
Business', the 1st book of the Deptford Trilogy. The
2nd book of
that trilogy, 'The Manticore' is about the
psychoanalysis of a young
man who's incel.'
'Has anyone here read 'The Sound and
the Fury' by William Faulkner? Quentin Compson's
chapter (chapter 2)
is almost a study in the effect that prolonged virginity can have
on a
person's mind. Quentin is a college student who is obsessed
with the
concepts of virginity and time (in that he feels his time is
running
out). His younger sister (Caddie) is not a virgin, and this
torments
him (especially because he seems to be sexually attracted to her
in a
kind of Freudian way). Anyway, I think that anyone who has
battled
with depression, anxiety or incel would find that they identify
a
little too closely with Quentin's character (tragically, he commits suicide).'
The children's book 'The Man Who Lived Alone' is "The
perfect antidote to the weirdo-loner-'he must be like Ted
Kaczynski' complex" according to a mailing list member.