Advice

This page is for general advice for incels, most often from other incels. There is no "script" or subject matter that is included or excluded from the advice section as every incel has different issues behind their social status, so it stands that every incel will find different advice more or less useful, depending on their situation. Have a read through some of the articles and see what you think.

The Articles

Simply click on one of the titles below to start your reading; each article has links to the others. Any references to 'the list' mean a mailing list that used to exist.

Strategies for overcoming incel

Incel Tech 1 (Managing Shyness)

Incel Tech 2 (Making an Initial Approach)

Incel Tech 3 (Understanding Safety Issues)

Incel Tech 4 (How to Be Charming)

Lessons from a Gentlemen's Club (Advice on a Person's Attitude)

Breaking the 'Lonely Cycle'

Nice Guys v Jerks (Looking into the mystery of this)

Dealing with physical tension

Help for 'sensitives'

The benefits of sports